Who is Ebenezer Gabriels?
- The dream of laboring under the wrong farm
- The vision of a man wearing a mask to God’s Presence
- The story of my encounter and the conversation of destiny
- Generational Patterns in Family Trees
- Corporate Encounters Revelations vs Personal Encounters Revelations
- The Question of My Destiny: Who is Your Father?
- Mother - Son - Son, give me 7 days and I’ll respond to youâ€
- I Never Knew the Biological Father for Close to 4 Decades
- Bringing the Conversation Forward
- Educating Stakeholders on Family Tree Enigmas How to Resolve Paternity Issues
- Resolving Identity Problems and Preserving True Family Heritages
- Family Integration and Blended Families
- Family Healing
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To my utmost surprise, the response from the mother was: "Son, give me seven days and I will respond to you."
For me, right at that moment, it was as though I'd never heard anything like that in my entire life.
Today there are thousands, if not millions, of children who are calling "Daddy" those who are not Daddy. Why would you want to name your child the name of your ex? A family tree slave always labors unending without the opportunity even to eat of the fruit of that labor. Essentially, they are the ones who are going to be sent out in the cold of the night, in the heat of the day, to go do all the work, especially when there is knowledge in the family that, "Oh, you know, that one is an outsider."
It was in one of those intimate, private encounters with the Lord that the Holy Spirit prompted my heart, and the question was posed to me, and I heard it very clearly saying, "Who is your father?"
Hi everyone, my name is Ebenezer Gabriels, and this is my Deliverance story.
Just imagine a farmer who has gone to the farm for the entire planting season, gets the seed, plants the seed, waters the seed, and takes very good care of the plant, digs around it, dungs it, and in his mind is preparing for an amazing harvest, especially when the weather condition has been kind to him in that season. Only to get to the harvesting season and realize that he has been planting and doing all this work in the wrong farm.
Now think about this story. An individual who, as a believer, has been taught the ways of the Lord, has been taught the way of Jesus, and has accepted Jesus into their life, and has been told everything is just going to be alright, and then they get to the point of harvest, they get to the point where they are supposed to begin to see miracles. And God appears to them and says to them, "Son, why are you praying? Why are you asking? Why are you making requests before me in The Mask?"
See people, this is the reality of a lot of people upon the Earth today. Many people believe that at the moment they give their life to Christ, the moment they say the sinner's prayer, from that moment onwards, things begin to work just like that. But the reality though is that many fail to deal even with what they call the identity, the fundamental identity issue, which is in their foundation. Many will go on for decades without even knowing the problem that is plaguing them. This used to be me, you know, many years ago. After, you know, giving my life to Christ, I, you know, just, you know, walked the path, you know, thinking everything would just be handed out like that. "Oh, I'm a new creation now, so I should be able to have everything that I need, everything that I want just like that."
But the thing that I did not know about was that there is a fundamental foundational issue that needed to be opened up. Just imagine after spending close to four decades and then realizing that the walk that you were actually walking with the Lord is not quite the walk that you're supposed to be walking with the Lord. You know, in this period of time, when the Lord began to call me into a closer walk, into a personal encounter, and it wasn't until the Lord, you know, called me into a personal walk with him, onto a personal journey, onto an adventure of knowing him personally, that the jar of secrets actually shattered. Just imagine for almost four decades, the life that you thought you knew turned out to be all lies.
The majority of believers, Christians today, have a notion that the moment you give your life to Christ, everything will be hunky-dory, you know, just name it, claim it, everything that you need is just, you know, delivered right into the palm of your hand, you know, and rightfully so, because they see all the, you know, miracles being touted here and there. And in this day and age, many will just, you know, go with the crowd, you know, on the currency of the crowd, and they would just go to different churches, you know, without actually having, you know, a personal encounter.
And that is how I used to live my life, you know, corporate worship was the thing, you know, wherever there was activity in the church, wherever there was events happening in the church, you know, I even led different concerts, led programs, different events, you know, and I was going on the strength of the majority. Corporate worship was the thing. "Oh, if we all act together, let us do it together." And that will take you on a generalistic adventure for a while, but if you really need to get to understand what your purpose is in life, if you really need to understand what God has called you even into upon the Earth, you have to, you know, get into the posture of personal encounter and personal experience with the Lord. This is beyond your salvation story. Yes, many people after giving their life to Christ, you know, they have that one touch encounter, but it needs to continue. It was Apostle Paul who said that, you know, "I did not immediately confer with other Apostles," said, "I went to Arabia." Your Arabia experience needs to begin right away. What that means is that you have to, you know, get to the point where you have a personal encounter with the Lord. And for me, until I had that personal encounter, I was living life in darkness. There was a lot of secrets in my foundation. There was a lot of secrets that I could not see beyond. There was a lot of things, it's almost as though you were, you know, waging war in darkness. There were a lot of things that made fulfillment of purpose very difficult.
But the moment, and I call it my "Aha" moment, right, the moment I had that personal encounter, the Lord began to draw me into a one-on-one encounter. See, previously, talk about concerts, I've organized different kinds of concerts, you know, on different levels, you know, and you had people coming from even different nations, different countries, from, you know, this country to that country, you know, coming together, you know, and it felt as though God was right in there, but essentially it turned out to just be activities until my personal encounter with the Lord. And it was at that moment that the Lord began to ask the very critical questions.
See, when you have a one-on-one encounter with the Lord, it is always an encounter that would never leave you the same for good, because this is the make or break moment. And if there's one thing, you know, with the Lord, it would essentially break off every mask, it will break off the jar of secrets, it will break off, especially if you're growing in maturity, it will not inundate you with the information or the data that you cannot handle. But as you, you know, grow deeper, as you seek the Lord, it would open up the things that have been holding you back. It was at that period where the Lord was drawing me into a personal, into a closer relationship, that I began to, you know, have this deep encounter where the Lord began to speak on a different level, where the Lord began to open the gift of revelation, the gift of prophecy, the gift of, you know, words of wisdom.
And this is the thing, right, as you journey deeper into a relationship with the Lord, I'm not talking about the corporate relationship, that is very good, in fact, it's amazing, you have someone to encourage you and there is a place for that. But if you're an individual who indeed wants to walk in purpose, who wants to, you know, fulfill what God has called you to fulfill and to achieve upon this Earth, you need to have that personal encounter. And you may be asking, "What is this personal encounter? What happens in a personal encounter?"
Well, a personal encounter with the Lord is the place where you are essentially backed into a wall, where He has cornered you in different areas, not because of something bad or evil happening to you, but He has brought you to a place where you are in surrender before the Lord, and it begins to dialogue with you.
See, what happens in that place is that the contract that is written in your soul, He begins to revisit that contract. You may be asking, "What does that mean?" Essentially, it means that He will question you. The book of Habakkuk says that "I will stand upon my high tower and listen to Him when He questions me." What prophet Habakkuk was saying there is that this is the point where, because in the first chapter of Habakkuk, he was asking questions, "Why does the good men, why do they not see good results in their lives?" He had questions, and then he said, "I will stand on the rampart when He questions me, He will question me like a man, I will respond to Him."
When you go to chapter 2 and chapter 3, the Lord began to ask the questions of his life. This is what happens in a personal encounter with God. See, God draws you into that place where He begins to speak to you, it begins with a question. And it was in one of those encounters, you know, at this moment in time, there are times where the Lord will say, "Oh, you know, go on a journey for the next 14 hours, you know, just hang out with me." And you might be wondering, "How do you hang out with God for 14 hours?" Well, it's a process. It's a process. And I would not tell you, as an individual who has not spent 5 minutes reading the scriptures, to say, "Oh, go for 20 hours." That is not the way it works. It's a process, you know. There are times where, as you begin to desire to know God, what happens essentially is that the desire continues to increase. It is like when you are in a relationship with an individual, you want to know more about them, there is a joy, there's an attraction, and it continues to grow in intensity.
So it was in one of these deep encounters, like I said, sometimes the Lord is drawing and saying, and is saying, "You know, come over." I'm just there by myself, you know, thinking about His words, just meditating, and sometimes I'm praying for hours. So it was in one of those intimate, private encounters with the Lord that the Holy Spirit prompted my heart, and the question was posed to me, and I heard it very clearly saying, "Who is your father?"
For me, at the time, it was a question that I didn't know where it was coming from. I was wondering, "What kind of question is this? What does this mean? Is this really for me, or is it for someone else? What is this question all about?" But the impression would not go away. It just stayed: "Who is your father?" And the more I pressed in prayers, the stronger it got, until I had to note down the question. And that was the beginning of what I call the great unraveling.
That question was something I was never prepared to deal with at the time. And I remember before this time, especially in our prophecy labs, you know, in the churches when we were ministering, words of prophecy would come forth like, "There's someone here, the Lord is delivering you from the wrong family tree." And people would say, "Yes, amen," and pray. And the interesting thing is that by the leading of the Holy Spirit, the words of prophecy would be released, "Oh, there's an individual here, the Lord wants to deliver you from the wrong family tree, He wants to plant you into the correct family tree." And this would go on for quite a while, you know, in different services, in different church services, prophecy labs, and this would continue. Many people actually had their own deliverance story. But regardless, this was a recurring message, which I would never in a million years think that had anything to do with me.
I remember during this encounter, how the question was so major that I wasn't prepared to deal with it. And I began to ponder in my heart, "What could this mean? What does this mean? What I think it means? Or is this really, you know..." And there was a lot of questions that were just going through my mind at this time. And I was asking even for the next line of action. It was in that moment that the Holy Spirit said, "You need to ask your mother. You need to ask your mother."
And if you're an individual who's coming from a cultural background like Africa or Asia, you would already know that there are certain things that you don't ask your parents. And so it was kind of a struggle. How do you ask this kind of question? How do you ask this kind of question? But it was so profound even within my heart. It was so profound. The voice of the Holy Spirit is real. So I continued in prayers, and by the time I had a release within my spirit, I made the call.
That was quite an interesting call. It was a long-distance call, obviously, speaking to the mother. "Mother, there's a question that I want to ask you. It is not really my question, but this and this and this happened in the place of prayer. This is what I heard. Do you have any information as regarding this subject? Do you have any clue as to what this question actually means? Or is there anything that you know that could really help in resolving this question?"
And to my utmost surprise, this can't be working, right? To my utmost surprise, the response from the mother was: "Son, give me seven days and I will respond to you."
For me, right at that moment, it was as though I'd never heard anything like that in my entire life. I mean, seriously, there were a lot of questions going through my mind, thinking, "What does that mean, seven days? Do you know something? Do you not know something? Do you have..." There was a lot of questions and emotions almost at the same time. But since the request was made, I had to agree to the request. And so essentially, the next seven days became the longest seven days of my entire life. Because it was in anticipation. You never knew that a day was that long, because these are indeed questions that did not originate from reading any book, it didn't originate from someone telling you things, it originated from the place of one-on-one encounter, from the place of deeper revelation, from the place of communion with the Lord, from the place of God questioning and querying even my purpose upon the Earth. And there was no way for me to enter into the purpose that God had for my life without understanding or knowing my own personal identity. So it was the longest seven days of my life.
Long story short, seven days came by, and I had that long-distance call again. And that is how the entire story began to unravel. And the first response on this call after seven days was that, "Well, I don't really think there's any reason for you to think otherwise." And then I remember the Holy Spirit just saying, "You've got to push. You've got to ask. You've got to ask." I went further to say, "Listen, I'm not trying to create any problem here, but this is what the Lord has said in the place of prayer: 'Who is my father?'"
And then the mother began to look for words. "Well, there might actually be a man." "Say what?" And then she began the story. "Well, you know, many years back, multiple decades now, I used to be with someone, and he was going off to university, I was going off to university as well, and things didn't quite work out. I went to a different city, and I met a different man." And I was just listening, "Okay, okay." And step by step, precept upon precept, it was as though a new building was being built, brick by brick, things began to come out.
At different instances, this is why the power of the Holy Spirit, the presence of the Holy Spirit, the personal encounter with God is very important. Because when He speaks to you, when you hear clearly what has been spoken to you, you will know without a shadow of a doubt that what you hear is the truth, even when individuals try to dress up the truth.
Long story short, there were instances where the story wanted to take a different turn, like, "I'm not sure, but..." And before this time, the Lord had prepared me even concerning the questions that I needed to ask. And as I began to ask these questions, step by step, it turns out, and then the first question that I asked after that was, "So what is the origin of my name? Where did I get my name? What is the meaning of my name?" And then it was revealed, "Oh, actually, your name is one of the names of that man, that ex."
"So, if you are not sure that this man is actually the father, why would you name your son, who is supposed to be the child of your new husband, the name of your ex-boyfriend? Doesn't make sense, does it?"
"Well, I just really liked him."
"This is not making sense. You cannot just really like your ex-boyfriend. That would essentially be emotional infidelity. If indeed you know that the son you are having or the child you are having belongs to your now husband, why would you want to name your child the name of your ex?"
And then we pressed in deeper, going to press in deeper. "So, this man that you are talking about, when was the last time you saw him? Are you still in contact? When was the last time you spoke to him?"
And to my shock, she said, "Oh, I'm still in touch with this man. In fact, a couple of weeks ago."
And I'm thinking, "This is not making sense. If you think the man you are still in touch with is not the father of your child, why are you in touch with this person? Both of you are essentially married to different individuals. What is the point? Why are you in touch with this person?"
It was at this point that information began to come out. "Oh, actually, by calculation, by this, by that, this essentially happened." And that was how the truth began to come out. That was how different... And this is the interesting thing, right? When the whole information, when the whole jar of secrets was shattered, when the whole information came out, it turns out that almost everybody knew the story except for me as an individual. And it was at that point that... you talk about betrayal, you talk about thinking through life, thinking, "What is real in this life? What is real?"
There's a grown adult who is well into almost four decades of existence upon the Earth, and you're just finding out that the man you've called "Daddy" all this while is actually not Daddy. And to make things worse, the Daddy that is not Daddy knows that he's not Daddy. And even your siblings know that you don't belong to that family. It has got to be the most shocking thing.
The reason why I'm talking about this is for the deliverance of many. Because in this day and age, there are many people who are locked up in similar scenarios. Today, there are thousands, if not millions, of children who are calling "Daddy" those who are not Daddy, those with whom they have no relationship biologically. The destiny of many children has been shortchanged.
A lot of women upon the Earth, again, this is not a woman thing, right, because some women may be thinking, "Well, I just have to keep this right." But what they have forgotten is that this is not the first time that it's happening. If a woman has gotten into this situation right now, there's almost 100% guarantee that it has happened in the previous generation. These are generational things. These are foundational issues that everyone needs to come to terms with. You have to understand, you have to know your family tree.
Obviously, the healing process took quite a while, walking through even the healing journey, and allowing God to bring healing. In fact, it was in that process that the Lord began to help me even to document the process. Obviously, it was not a journey that I undertook alone. Thankfully, my wife was there as a pillar of support even to go through this journey. It was a very emotional journey. But it was through this journey that a lot of revelation and a lot of books were actually released. One of those books was the book called "The Uncursed." And after that was the family deliverance series, "Delivered from the Wrong Family Tree." This also came out as a result of that revelation. Many people have shared their testimonies, many people have talked about how they found out that they were planted in the wrong family tree.
Usually, if anyone were to tell me, "I think you've got to check your family tree. I don't think you belong to that family," I would argue from now till the kingdom come that it's impossible. But these are the things that are, especially if you will fulfill the calling of God concerning your life, your purpose upon the Earth. Many people today are praying with the wrong name. "Oh, I so and so, the son of so and so, I'm asking," but you are not the son of so and so. You are essentially coming before God with a mask on.
That is why I'm saying that you have to understand your own deliverance story. What is God delivering you from? Today, many are into deliverance, many are talking about healing without their own deliverance story. What did God, this God that you are talking about, what has He delivered you from? The reason again that I'm sharing this is for the deliverance and the setting free of other people.
Just imagine the relationships that you've had growing up, the people that you grew up together with in your family, the friends of the family. Many people do not even know this story. The friends, the family friends, the people that you grew up with, all of a sudden just realizing that the family that is supposed to be the foundation of everything in society is false, it's fraudulent. What else is real?
Imagine going through your process of healing, and some friend calls you from years before and says, "Oh," and calls you "your old man," and you're thinking, "There's no basis for connection," because now you are doubting every relationship. What is real?
Obviously, I'm not mentioning names, but it's important for everyone even to be able to go through their deliverance journey. You have to understand even your foundation so that you don't go on putting a mask on, demanding for what does not belong to you in the first place. And this is one of the challenges that I wish I had known. As children growing up, sometimes children can make demands, especially when they think, "Oh, this is my father, why wouldn't you give this to me, Daddy? Why wouldn't you give this to me, Daddy?" And you're thinking, "Daddy is not giving to me, Daddy is acting funny right now."
And especially when Daddy knows that he's not Daddy, the majority of the requests that were made even as a child, or the majority of the requests that were made even as a teenager growing up, should not even have been made at all because you are requesting what does not belong to you. Eventually, the family was brought together, because obviously, a revelation like this would require family meetings and family gatherings. It was actually quite an interesting series of episodes. But you would not believe it that there were still people who were anti the release of that information, saying, "Why did you let him know? Why did you tell him that?"
You would not believe that it was mostly pastors who were saying, "Oh, you should not have told him. Why did you tell him this? Why, why, why?" And it was almost as though... and I remember one of the pastors, a prophet, a family friend, saying, "What is the point? Whether this man is your father or whether he's not your father, what is the point?"
I'm thinking, this is the problem that many people are going through today. How can you say, especially if you claim to have revelation from the Lord, you claim to be a shepherd of God's people, how could you say that it doesn't matter whether this person is... And I realized that this is not a siloed problem, it is a problem that is spread across the Earth today, especially in African nations. I was reading this just the other day, and it was said that Nigeria scored very high on the promiscuity meter. That was quite strange. And again, this is not to point fingers at the mothers or the ladies or anything like this, right? But obviously, for someone to be promiscuous, they have to have a partner, right? So it goes both ways.
But the point in there is that there are many people who are living life without even understanding their identity, people who are picking fights even with fathers who are not their fathers, demanding what does not belong to them in the first place, people who do not belong even to that family tree who are making demands. When the majority of these individuals get to know that they don't even belong to that family tree, they would do life differently. They would think differently. They would act differently.
It was through that process that deeper revelation began to be released concerning the family tree deliverance. I remember one of the shockers was when the Lord began to talk about the concept of the family tree slave. These were things I had never heard before, and the majority is documented in this book, "Deliverance from the Wrong Family Tree." It's actually quite powerful. A lot of stories are shared here.
And you might be wondering, "What does that have to do with me?" Well, this is to know. And it was interesting to understand that there was actually an example even in the scriptures. The man Moses was planted in the wrong family tree. Sometimes the reason why individuals are planted in the wrong family tree could be for protection, for preservation, but most of the time, it is as a result of one form of fraud or the other.
I'm going to say that again. There are individuals who are planted for their protection. In the case of Moses, he was going to be destroyed, he was going to be killed. But for the majority out there today, they are planted in that wrong family because of fraud. Women who are trying to partake in the benefit, perhaps, of a rich man, there's a man who is very rich, and they just wanted to inherit part of that wealth. So you have people like that. You also have people who are unfaithful in their marriage.
The interesting thing is that the majority of this secret is being kept even through pastors. Again, this is not an avenue to shame pastors or anything like this, right? But I realize that many pastors, this is what they are using as a stronghold even against many women who are married. "Oh, if you don't continue to donate to our church, you don't want your husband to know this information."
And in the first place, the women will run to the pastors to say, "Oh, this is what is happening, how do we resolve this?" Interestingly, many pastors will give them the advice, "Well, what you need to do, don't talk about this." And it's not because that is the wisest counsel, but so that they can continue even to have a point of blackmail.
Many might be thinking today, "Does it mean that once this comes to the open, will the family not be destroyed?" Well, I want to encourage you. In fact, this is the solution. And everyone has to listen to this, especially before you get married. As a single man, as a single woman, right? What you need to do is to find your father, drag them to the hospital, or get one of those DNA kits and ascertain your family tree, ascertain your origin, know what your family tree looks like. You must get to that point where, listen, it is a win-win scenario for you. If that man turns out to be your father, good for you. If it turns out not to be your father, good for you, because at least now you know that this is your lineage and the children coming after you will be in the right family tree.
That is for singles. For those who are married, and I recommend this for every family, every family. There are two major issues across the Earth today, especially in Christianity, that people do not want to go near. Number one is the issue of taking time off from corporate gathering to worship from home, to understand who God is and to know God by yourself, because this is a place of personal encounter. This is the place that God is going to query you, query your soul, and ask you the questions of liberation of your own destiny. But people don't want to talk about that. That is number one. You hear people talk about, "Oh, that is going to destroy the body of Christ." No, it is not. In fact, it is going to strengthen the body of Christ when you take time off even to go on this personal journey, personal encounter with the Lord.
The second issue is the issue of DNA, especially our dear sisters, the mothers. "Oh, why do you want to wake the sleeping dog? Why do you want to wake the sleeping lion?" Listen, it is very important, and this is the solution. Listen, as a married couple, it is important, especially for the men out there. First of all, your calling is to rise up and be the intercessor for your family. Your calling is to rise up and build a worship altar. This is beyond the "In the morning, early in the morning." This is beyond that two, three, five-minute thing that you do in the morning. This is beyond all that. You are called even to have a personal worship altar. Your worship altar as a man has to be strong. You have to be the leader that God has called you to be, because when you are strong as a man that God has called you to be, your wife will not be deceived, your children will not be deceived.
And this is important. The majority of the women today, they have no ill intention. Some of them are just looking for solutions to common problems in their household. Some of them do not have the understanding that there are times when the foundation is not secure, there could be issues in marriages. So they go looking for solutions when there is no problem in the first place. Some of them go to pastors, some of them find solace in their colleagues at work, and things happen. And the funny thing in all this is that it's very interesting that oftentimes the actual biological father of children is usually not far from where the children are. Really not far.
I saw a similar testimony from the gospel musician Kirk Franklin, I believe. His testimony was released last year's Father's Day. It was very emotional, very dramatic, and that was quite interesting. I was looking at his testimony and said, "This is one of the things that you can say, 'I understand how you feel.'"
Another interesting thing, just a couple of days ago, I believe, one of the sons of the late Chief MKO Abiola was talking about paternity fraud even in their family as well. The man initially had 103 children or something like this, and until he decided to do DNA, it was determined that only 50-some children actually belonged to him. Looking at that statistic, it is actually quite staggering, the number of children who are under the wrong family tree.
I know I was talking about the family tree slave. Moses was an example of this. He was raised up in the wrong family tree. These are the things that you begin to see in the life of an individual who is a family tree slave. Number one, a family tree slave is a child who has been planted under the wrong family tree. They are an individual who is given a wrong understanding of what fatherhood actually means. A family tree slave always labors unending without the opportunity even to eat of the fruit of that labor. Essentially, they are the ones who are going to be sent out in the cold of the night, in the heat of the day, to go do all the work, especially when there is knowledge in the family that, "Oh, you know, that one is an outsider."
Every man, every woman, you have to come to that place where you find out. You have to make your own research even into your own family. For married couples, I've spoken about the man. You have to stand up for your family. And listen, there might be women out there who are thinking, "Oh, don't ruin our family." No, this is not going to ruin your family. As a matter of fact, if you are going through this issue, or you are about to, perhaps as a lady, you have a similar issue, and you're not quite sure even how to go about this, there's a link below this video where you can reach out even to our counselors. By the grace of God, we've been able to help people even go through this process.
It is very important. It's an area of deliverance that we're very passionate about because it is all about the propagation of the next generation. Also for the men, perhaps you want to go through this process, you want to carry out a DNA check even on your children, and you're asking how to go about this, you can also reach out to us. And perhaps you're a father who just discovered that some of the children are not yours, right? And you're wondering how to go about this. Listen, not all these kinds of discoveries actually lead even to a separation. It was even through this process that we actually wrote this book. It is called "Heaven's Perspective on Blended Families." Blended families, alright?
Blended families, and you might be asking, "What is blended families all about?" Listen, blended family, like I said, you might be a family who just found out that some kids are not yours. The process of properly adopting the children that do not belong to you and grafting them into your family is a clear biblical process. There's a lot of revelation in that area. There's a prayer of adoption even into your family. That is, obviously, if you want to bring those children into your family.
Perhaps, it is not always about, "Oh, this child is not mine, so you want to..." No, it doesn't have to lead even to separation. But it is important so that every child will know even their family tree and they can be properly grafted. It's important.
In fact, there are also individuals who are getting married today, having children from different marriages, right? We also recommend this, "Blended Families." Many have been tremendously blessed even based on the revelation that has been poured out even into this piece of literature. It is called "Heaven's Perspective on Blended Families."
You may be asking, "How bad is the situation?" Listen, for some people, three out of four children are not theirs. For some, it is two out of four. For others, it's one out of four. So it depends on different... And there are individuals who, after they carry out the DNA, they realize that all the children are theirs. Listen, this is not to say, as a man, this is not to then look at your wife and say, "Oh, God delivered you if I had found out that..." No, no, no. This is something that calls even for celebration because it could have been otherwise. It could have been something else.
So it's important, especially to the men, for you to rise up and do not allow even the revelation of DNA even to ruin your family. It is not a cause for scattering homes. As a matter of fact, it is something that is supposed to bring you together, find out how things are happening, how you got to that point, and propose and begin to walk even in the healing that God has created.
It's very important. The majority of parents in this day and age are less involved even in the lives of their children. As a father, the scripture says, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it." You see many individuals, instead of training up a child, they just expect the child even to know what is right and what is wrong. If the child shows signs of rebellion because of lack of training, they are quick to say, "Oh, that child doesn't listen to them." No, listen, the scripture recommends and says, "Train up a child."
So the way it goes is that you are supposed to train. You train up a child, you leave room for errors. So when you train up a child, you allow the child to make their mistakes, and then you correct the mistakes, and then you begin the cycle again and again and again and again. But it comes to a time where, as a father, that before God, you've spent time in training your child and you've given even room for errors and retraining, and still, after doing all those things, you notice that there is something inherently dissonant in the life of that child, you know that there's something inherently off in the life of that child, which essentially talks about the lack of authority, right? This is a telltale sign that something might be off, and that is a call for you to begin to either pray or go get tested, go ensure your entire household, be sure. This is a time for you to bring everybody together and carry out that DNA.
Listen, the DNA test will not ruin your family. The DNA test should unite your family together. Like I said, this is an area of deliverance that we're very passionate about. At the E Gabriels, we are very passionate even about the family tree deliverance because there are many people who are going through this. Again, not every DNA revelation leads to a broken family. Like I mentioned earlier, there are people who would choose even to integrate children even from different households under the same umbrella. That is why we wrote the "Blended Family" book. There's a lot of revelation on how even to bring together children that may not even be yours, but you have to go through the right process, the right approach.
So it's very important. I want to encourage you, listen. There are also individuals who, after a result of the DNA result, are just not able to continue the way they were as a family. That is also there. But I'm just saying that it is important even for every family to know, especially because of the future of the children. There are a lot of children who are presenting even the wrong family health record. You want to ensure that your child of the next generation is well equipped even to overcome whatever may come along their way.
I want to encourage you. The family tree deliverance brings healing to the family unit, and when the family unit is healed, the community is healed. When the community is healed, the nation is healed. Like I said earlier, I'm very passionate about this family tree deliverance. I hope, as a man, as a woman, as a family, as a single man, as a single woman, you would take the effort even to find out even your family tree.
My name is Ebenezer Gabriels, and this is my story.
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